You're kidding, right? I've had my share of sparring with both BHFAN and Jody on 3 (and probably 4) message boards. But once the battle ends, it's over and for either to harbor some resentment toward the other afterward is expending energy that, at least for me, is better served elsewhere.
As to Silsbee, they were BH's opponent, why would they not come on a board that they are supposedly welcome on (they are welcome on it, right?) and profess why they think they will defeat their opponent of the week? And I am not sure who drug whom in this "battle." A review of the threads reveal precious little talk about Silsbee FROM Silsbee folk. Most of it appeared to from those that had an axe to grind with Jody or BHFAN.
I'm not sure how Jasper has been "drug" into this fray, either. First of all, anybody who has monitored the boards knows that the war of words between BH and Jasper even predates WO-S' venture into 3A. Second, in touting Huffman, they were merely passing along their experiences against the Falcons in saying why they thought they would prevail, much like folks here have done for the likes of BC, Jasper, etc.
I think everybody just needs to take a step back and a couple of deep breaths.