Here is what baffles me....
I really tried to be super Dad. Those that know me and seen my FB post know I was a Dad and coach to my Son starting when he could barely throw a baseball.
When I gave him his first phone with internet I was afraid of the bad influence the internet would give him. I restricted YouTube and other things from his phone....Then Xbox and PlayStation happened....I walked in on him playing games when he didn't have his headphones on and I was floored with the f bombs and cursing. At that point, I had the I can't be with you 24/7, and I'm going to have to trust you to make good decisions. He is currently 25, and never been in jail or trouble. He never did the stupid things I did as a kid.
My point - I think him having exposure to the internet where he could witness all the people doing stupid things, it taught him what NOT to do. Just like Karmelo Anthony, these kids have the internet and social media and can see all the lives ruined, yet continue to be stupid and throw their lives away. It boggles my mind.