Very good post, you have a legitimate point, but it all depends on the organization that you are dealing with. I like the fact that you stepped up to help the organization, and served as a positive influence in those kids life. The game should be fun, when we as adults step in by paying to ensure that our kids start, we as adult take the fun out of the game. Issues as such should be reported to the STJFL board, I know for a fact that they would handle those issues accordingly. Best of luck to you in TIFI, I am for everything that is positive for the youth and there development.