Yeoj

lol... some of my coworkers that I fish and hang out with are white. I have a white aunt. My sister in law is a white woman. Hell three of my cousins have white spouses. And one of my best friends from high school is white. I don't have a problem with white people. You have a problem with black people that don't think as you do. Check the privilege at the door when dealing with me, I'm not the one!

Nobody is saying that you don't know a white person, and it honestly doesn't matter if your uncle married a white girl.  The word is either offensive or it's not.  It's unreasonable and moronic to think that you can use it yourself, and then be offended when somebody else says it.  Why can't you admit that you don't have a problem with the word, as evidenced by your continued usage...  Your problem only arises when a person of a different color than yourself utters it. 

That is textbook racism, my man.  

I stand shoulder to shoulder with everybody else that condemns the use of that word.  What I can't stand is associating with a weak mind that believes the offensiveness of a word can be judged by the color of the person using it, or whether it's pronounced with an "a" or an "er." 

It's like dealing with two year-olds, I swear.