Years ago I experienced a similar problem with my daughter.At that time she was about 8-10 years old,now she is 16.Where we lived,which was in the Golden Triangle area,our home town softball league was supposed to merge with another town's softball league.I was willing to try it,but things didn't work out like I thought they would.I asked our local District Rep. if my daughter could play out of another league,and I was told NO she could not.Well I did not stop there,I contacted the "Head Man" in Austin,TX. and asked him why my daughter could not play out of another league?I told him that I had no problem paying her dues,getting her to and from practices or games.Nor doing what was asked of me to do from the league(work concession stand,etc.)The man told me,"if she wanted to play on a team in Dallas and lived here in the Golden Triangle,we could as long as we got her to all practices and games and did what ever we were supposed to do with what ever league we wanted to play with".So my advice to you is to contact someone like I did.It was the best thing I did for my daughter.I had two girls that played softball,my oldest is 8 years older than my youngest,unfortunately due to my ignorance my older daughter stopped playing because there were not enough girls in her age group (14)to form teams out of our league.I did not make that mistake again.My 16 year old is playing High School Varsity Softball and also plays travel ball with Orange Crush.She is hoping to attend College to play softball,so far it's looking good she is also a straight A student.So if your daughter is really into playing ball,don't believe the first time you are told NO!Go to the TOP like I did.She should be able to play somewhere with other little girls.