CraigS I played HS ball and club ball and never missed ONE UIL GAME for club and signed a full scholarship.......and would of NEVER put my high school coaches in a situation where i "told" them when i would be there. I was there.......because i made that committment to the team, to my coach and to the local high school i played for. Playing a college sport is a job.....i know this from experience. the demands are HUGE...They are paying your way so they own you.... and yes, i played because of the love of the game-- but there is a difference. It's not the same experience as playing high school ball....... BUT--you don't seem like the type to hear anyone elses argument on this subject ..... not even coming from a person who has 'been there, done that'...