If its up to the kid and he is competitor... he's going all in. 

I can't tell you how many kids I see every evening in the gym lifting weights (going heavy) after getting out of baseball practice.  Most if not all play football as well.  I also know for a fact these kids are working out during athletic period, then going to practice or a game.  Who do you blame then....kids, parents?  Not the coaches. 

If it's a true multi-sport athlete, the that kid is going to choose to play and practice every time.

Kinda depends for me.  Did coach mandate it?  Tell the player he better show up?  Or did the player want/choose to be there?

Just asking, because I'm not aware of any, but was any of that list perpetrated while he was in office?