That's exactly what I am saying. Of course they would want to play for a state title everywhere, but why not create an atmosphere where it's not just the championship that creates the memory, but the experience of playing on the biggest stage any of them will every see in their lives?
The larger issue is we have entitled kids (players) running around with no accountability. Add to that the influence from most of the music these days that constantly demeans women and refers to them as B's and H's, and you have a recipe for disaster. Entitlement babies preying on those who they believe are prizes and not people creates a culture where NO is not an acceptable answer. It's hard for me to believe that any coach or institution will ever be able to get that totally under control.